February 24, 2003
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High Road or Low?
UPDATED
When an ignorant young person impertinently parrots some arrant
self-serving nonsense learned from equally ignorant and self-serving,
but also reactionary and pompous, elders, is the correct response to
ignore the misguided whelp, put him down with a scathing rejoinder, or
engage him in civilized debate?When a member of an elite ruling class, a powerful minority,
criticizes and castigates members of the oppressed majority for having
become warped, underhanded and cruel in their dealings with their
oppressors, does the impeccable warrior of the underclass take a little
sarcastic snipe at the self-important critic, then retreat and live to
fight another day–or does she get right in his face and give him hell
and bring down on herself the wrath of the oppressors? Or is there
another, preferable, course?Those are rhetorical questions, dear readers, but feel free to
respond if you think you have an answer. The First Amendment to the
U.S. Constitution is the first thing I would rise up to defend. Just
beware: answering rhetorical questions leaves one open to an ensuing
debate, and even to ridicule if the answer one presents can be
successfully refuted.For me, the one answer to all of the above is, “It depends on the
circumstances.” I’m a firm advocate of situational ethics. I think that
any one-size-fits-all, stock response to any given eventuality is going
to be inappropriate in some situations. My regular readers, the
attentive ones, have learned that I am engaged in a quest to transcend
my beliefs. I don’t believe that, “everyone needs something to believe
in.” I’ve given myself a free pass on that one, and will extend one to
any brave souls out there who desire to join in this quest.I do NOT “believe in” situational ethics. It is a basic foundation
of my paradigm, a principle that guides almost every decision I make,
but I don’t take it on faith. My experience with by-the-book living in
my own life and those of others I’ve observed, has taught me that there
are incidents and contingencies not covered in any book. I’ve read a
lot of books, have delved deeply into studies of religion, mysticism,
and metaphysics. I worked for several years as a book critic. It’s not
a matter of my being able to read critically. I am unable to completely
suspend the critical response. If I encounter flawed logic or
flawlessly reasoned arguments based on bullshit premises, I notice.Frequently, I wonder why people don’t think about what they believe. Over 108 years ago, T.H.Huxley,
President of the Royal Society, believed that the time was already
fifty years in the past, when, “It was possible for very eminent and,
at the same time, perfectly sincere men, to keep their scientific and
their other convictions in two separate logic-tight compartments.” I
truly do understand how he could have been so wrong. When one’s own
awareness is broad and lucid, one tends to forget that there are still
others who live in very narrow, dark, little reality-tunnels. Even now,
the world is filled with people who have never bothered to apply the
abilities of one cerebral hemisphere to an examination of the contents
of the other one.That much is excusable, understandable because many of us lack any
active neurological crossover via the corpus callosum between the
hemispheres. The wetware is there, the physical neurochemistry exists.
What’s missing is the electricity, the neural activation. Even for men,
however, whose mentation occurs almost exclusively in the left
hemisphere, some logical examination of data stored there, in the light
of other data stored there, a little compare-and-contrast among the
files, should be possible. Am I the only one who thinks it would also
be helpful?
Civilized debate it is!
A comment from TheHorseYouRode prompted this update. He wrote:
“now, i don’t know diddly about situational ethics, but doesn’t the mere definition of ethics negate wavering of any kind? can you suggest a book i might read on the subject?”
I recognize that he might be putting me on, there.
“Situational ethics” has been a pejorative term for most people
throughout more than half my lifetime. Sources that
condemn seat-of-the-pants morality far outnumber those that
promote or defend it. I prefer to take the comment as
an opening to extend the debate and expand the scope of it. The
first book that popped into my mind was How to Believe in Nothing and Set Yourself Free by Michael Misita but, although an excellent book, it’s only tangentially related to ethics.That definition question is valid. Although my paper
dictionary has slightly different wording, the effect is the same as
what I found at Merriam-Webster OnLine.Main Entry: eth·ic

Pronunciation: 'e-thik
Function: noun
Etymology: Middle English ethik, from Middle French ethique, from Latin ethice, from Greek EthikE, from Ethikos
Date: 14th century
1 plural but singular or plural in construction : the discipline dealing with what is good and bad and with moral duty and obligation
2 a : a set of moral principles or values b : a theory or system of moral values <the present-day materialistic ethic> c plural but singular or plural in construction : the principles of conduct governing an individual or a group <professional ethics> d : a guiding philosophyUntil you toil through and get to d, it’s all about
moral systems and sets of rules. I can see how someone could
think that that is all there is to ethics. But one can have an
ethic that isn’t written down in any book, one based on subjective
values such as love.In his seminal 1966 work, Situation Ethics,
Joseph Fletcher did base his system on love, and used a debatable
biblical reference to support it. The book-thumpers jumped on
that. You can find their response to Fletcher at the
website of All About GOD Ministries, Inc.Google is great; Google is good. I’ve been having a blast
searching and refining my search. Among thousands of serious web
references, I found one that’s actually funny.
Which brings me to something I’ve noticed about a lot of people.
They tend to practice situational ethics, the vast majority of people
whom I’ve observed. Bending the rules to fit the circumstances
seems to be the way of the world, currently. The ones, I’ve
found, who don’t occasionally bend a rule do tend to be quite humorless
as well.
Comments (20)
Good questions. Great material for discussion. I’m not so much an advocate of situation ethics as I am of contextualized ethics. I don’t for instance accept that it’s ever the best moral choice to lie. But, I can imagine contexts in which it’s pointless to speak the truth, either because it wouldn’t be heard or understood. With relativism, it seems that everything quickly becomes the same shade of gray. But on the other hand, by the book absolutes tend to lead quickly to the broad path of legalism and I find that to be as fraught with danger as relativism.
As an ignorant young person, I vote for civilized debate.
Big fan of situational evaluation. If life is so boring that we can run it through a pre-prepared morality machine… then what’s the point of actually playing it all out? It’s like a Bengals game.
I just want to say that your writing has been exceptionally tasty lately.
now, i don’t know diddly about situational ethics, but doesn’t the mere definition of ethics negate wavering of any kind? can you suggest a book i might read on the subject?
cc~rider/see what you have done Now! lol
big smile on that corpus callosum information/suggestion!
perhaps if we had comminication between our brain halves/we could have communication with each other .. *thought provoking blog* heh heh
Thanks for making me think – I hadn’t heard the term “situational ethics” before,and I can see I have a lot to learn,so I’ll certainly be looking through the linked sites…
~Angeline~
Here’s my take…engage in debate, ask questions, play the advocate in effort to get to the root of the opposing person’s belief system.
“Everyone needs something to believe in. Me, I believe I’ll have another beer.” –Brother Bud Sanders, ‘UFOria‘
One of the interesting things to me about Buddhism, particularly the Tibetan flavors, is the insistence that all the way down to the most basic component, all phenomena are based on compassion. No faith in this notion is required, because it’s as true a statement as any other statement that can be made about the most basic components of phenomenal reality.
In this way, the duality of situational versus non-situational ethics evaporates in a cloud of universal lovingkindness, each decision is based on an open and fresh consideration, fueled by beauty and whatever truth it’s possible to know.
Of course, aspiring young bodhisattvas have a little trouble getting used to that perception, so we have rules. Some rules are flexible, and some aren’t. It’s OK for some to be flexible, just as it’s OK for some to not be flexible, and I think that’s what’s missing in most discussions of situational ethics or relative morality.
As an example, I’m breaking levitican law right this very second. Who will chastise me?
You know I have always believed that everyone did need something to believe in but reading this I realized that I lived for years not believing in anything and was fine…
Very interesting thoughts.
I think, for most people, ethics are like everything else in life. You use it when it benefits you and don’t when it won’t. Situational, of course. People hate anything that is black and white.
I think that you’re right that most people practice situational ethics and don’t realize it or would deny it. I think it is only human to see that there are many sides and options possible in different situations.
The interesting factor in this crop of comments, in the aggregate, is the way various readers picked up on different parts of the whole, some commenting on my setup, the rhetorical introductory matter, while most used the ethical issue as a springboard to discuss their own beliefs. One of you even commented on my central point. Thanks, Jude.
If i didn’t just lose all my brain cells in class, i would have something interesting to say to that. sorry…
Bending to fit the circumstances – yup. Seems the natural thing to do - Air does … water does … light does … sound does …
Thanks SuSu for the reminder to watch out for the “tender parts” in the act of the art of archery. Fortunately, I’ve never had much of a problem keeping ‘em out of the way. Apparently, I’m made to be an archer, if ya get me drift. For once, that will be an advantage … lol. Take care!!
I am so confused and therefore feel ignorant?
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I agree with your answer to your rhetorical question, it would depend on the circumstances on how I would or would not answer. And I would have to make sure a path of retreat was always open! I have also provided answers, or opinions, that burnt a few bridges before I knew that I would need to cross them again. Experience is a good teacher, albeit hard.
Some will place the phrase “situational ethics” in the oxymoron class.
And I find it interesting that “commentors”, even as I, do have “selective” comments on that part where they might have the highest opinion. I appreciate the thought provoking posts!
I don’t follow ethics, just my path in life whatever it may be.
-tR
thank you for the update. it was an honest question….
wow… this was quite the read, makes me wish i had something of substance to throw into the ring, but you’ve all left me dumbfounded (in a good way.) if it’s worth anything, you’ve managed to switch my mental tracks this morning…
one of my all time favorite quotes about belief come from the movie dogma. Rufus, the thirteeth aposole, tells the main character that basically having a belief is too limiting but having ideas are where it is at. I have to admit that I like situational ethics, it seems like there are always to many variables to ever be able to make a clear cut answer for everything.