May 14, 2004
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Another Trip to Wasilla
My first
stop yesterday was the waterhole, to fill some jugs for Greyfox.
Most of the fireweed in my yard is still at the edible stage, but most
of what I saw in the open sunny area around the spring had grown
past the tender tasty stage into tough, bitter inedibility. Trees
in the background at left, on top of the bluff above the spring,
illustrate at what stage the leafing-out process is now at this end of
the Susitna Valley.
Fireweed
is best, fresh in salad or steamed briefly as you would asparagus, when
it is still purple-red and before the leaves spread out. I
haven’t picked any yet this year. It’s time to get out there and
get started… now.The
second stop was at one of my favorite photographic subjects, Lake
Kashwitna, about 17 miles from home.
Last week there had still
been some rafts of floating ice along the shady margins of the
lake. All the ice is gone now. I must get out the
fair-weather Fuji because I have UV filters and such for it, but not
for this little Kodak. The haze makes “Sleeping Lady”, Mount
Susitna, in the background, kinda indistinct. She was really
shining yesterday, in direct sunlight beyond the cloud cover.
The
next three stops for flaggers in the construction zone, and the
wait for the pilot car, prove that winter is really over. Some
people around here who used to say that our two seasons were
“mosquitoes and no mosquitoes,” now are saying they are winter and road
construction. This job has been moving northward at a rate of
about 12 miles a year, for three years. By about 2007 or ’08
they’ll be tearing up the road in my part of the valley.The old army surplus ambulance at right is a vehicle I see on the road
occasionally. It must be based not far from here. The
vanity plates read “WRWAGN”. I think it’s cool. Note how
much further along the tree-leafing process has come in this
shot. This is just south of Willow, about halfway between
here and Wasilla.
These
next two shots, from the rehab ranch where I volunteer as van driver,
sorta got me in trouble, I guess. After I’d shot them, a
counselor stuck her head out the door and told me, “You can’t take
pictures out there.” My unspoken thought, of course, was, “I
can’t, eh? But I already did.” I assured her that there
were no people in my pics and she pulled her head back in.
The
sign on the building at right in the shot at left says,
“acceptance.” The picture at right is my favorite part of the
ranch, the thrift shop, and that tree behind the store appears to be
fully leafed-out, or close to it.. Yesterday I bought a basket, a
cream-color corduroy REI shirt, a soup mug with big red hearts on it, a
soft black cotton headscarf from India, and three packages of
decorative package-wrapping ribbon, and had some pleasant conversation
with two of the residents… not my favorite resident, but he noticed I
was there and came over and stuck his head in the door for a quick
hello. The ranch hand who has captured my heart wasn’t around
yesterday… and I MUST remember, I’m a married woman… don’t know his
marital status, sexual preference or anything but his first name and
the facts that he’s a dear man and a true hottie.
At Felony Flats one of the denizens, a young man with develomental
difficulties, was playing with his radio-controlled car. One of
the cats that Greyfox has been feeding stalked the toy car for a while.
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.When the little car started chasing her, she ran and hid under a big car.
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.Yesterday evening after Greyfox shut down his stand, as I waited
outside his cabin for him to change clothes before the meeting, I
witnessed one of the reasons that strip of cabins and flea market
booths has come to be called Felony Flats. It was so uncool, and
so typical of things I was part of when I hung with bikers and speed
freaks, that it nicely reinforced my commitment to staying clean and
serene.Several of the people next door were having a difference of opinion,
outdoors in public, at the tops of their voices. The topic was
whether or not a wholesale lot of some kind of drug they’d just
purchased had been “stepped on” (adulterated), and if so, how much it
had been and whether or not it would be cool to step on it (or step on
it again) before they broke it down into smaller packages for resale.
Inside
the cabin, Greyfox didn’t catch the gist of the argument, but only
heard the raised voices. On our way to the meeting I related the
text to him. He said he wished he’d heard; he could have settled
the argument. He would have told them that of course the stuff
had already been walked on and that they should not step on it more
until they’d sold a first round to their regular customers. Then
step on it and sell the weaker stuff to the same jerks. When they
come back and complain, just tell them they’re screwed up, been using
too much of the shit and developed a tolerance. Duh!
The
Old Fart had asked me to bring my scissors in with me and give his
beard a trim. The insulation is no longer needed, now that
winter’s over. I got this pair of before and after shots. I
think he looks better after. What do you think?I’m glad he has started letting me trim his beard regularly. For
a while that was a source of contention between us. He had a
preference for going to barbers. He used to have a tendency to
believe that something was worth more if it cost more, but he’s getting
over that. For a while, he used to try to rationalize it with
some bullshit about how he felt bad making his wife work as his barber,
too, but I convinced him that I’d rather sculpt his beard myself than
live with the mess some of those barbers made of it. After a
particularly bad barbershop haircut and an uneven beard trim last year
that I had to even out for him afterward, he’s now seeing it my
way. The hair is looking good now, grew out okay from that awful
haircut and now (after months) has reached the “collar length” he told
the barber he wanted. It won’t need trimming for a while.A week or so ago, I gave Doug a haircut and trimmed his beard. I
didn’t take any pics because he didn’t seem pleased with the
idea. However, this morning when I got into my picture
files I found the self-portrait below on the hard drive.
That’s my boy.
He has his father’s receding hairline, only it
hasn’t receded quite as far as Charley’s has. Male pattern
baldness is sexy, eh? It’s a sign of high testosterone
levels. Before the trim the beard was forked, with one side much
longer and thicker than the other. It’s not much of a beard, but
give it time. It’s just getting started.

Comments (8)
Nice trim of the Old Fart’s beard. Looks MUCH better! Wish I’d been able to pick up some of the fireweed seeds when I was there last fall. They are really pretty plants. Yes I know they are WEEDS!
Re: my poem.You are right I posted it too soon after writing it. But who cares compared to the wonderful and exciting life you lead. I am green with envy!
The popularity of barbers and short haircuts just before the turn of last century ( and after the long hair fixation of the Civil war) can be credited to the innovation of barbers dispensing condoms after a ‘haircut’. Anytime a guy needed a condom, he’d visit the barber shop. (No such things as ‘all-purpose drug stores’ sold them yet.) So the demand for barber-supplied condoms drove the demand for alibi-haircuts. Hair got shorter. Condoms in the pockets of barber-visiting guys became more prolific. Fashion was defined!
Clearly, Greyfox is out of the loop! Give the ‘old fart’ my best regards! And a ‘Yukon Standard’ shout out to you.
LOL at the idea of Greyfox going to a barbershop for a condom. If ever a man didn’t need condoms, he’s the one: vasectomized before I met him and in a committed, long-term relationship with a crone, no need for contraception or STD protection here.
HAH!!!!!!!!!! BTW……….GF’s beard looks AWESOME!!!!!!! GO YOU! I love this post.
btw….errr……..I mailed TWO BIG BOXES YESTERDAY!!!!! WHOA! Dya think I might be able to send that little thingy I dicussed with you…….errrr……hmmm….. TWO FUCKING YEARS AGO? hmmm? ya think….?
Okay, lemme just add some bs in here ….um….i had a little thingy for you and for d but for gf i was stumped and just didna wanna send without including him……….BUY that?
no? Okay……..um. I think I’m ready to start grasping MAILING now. If there is a diff addy than the one you have already given me…….plse email asap……I’m on a roll
Love you
pictures pictures pictures!!! Where to start.
1) Absolutely love the ambulance. It reached out and grabbed me right away.
2) The beard. To be honest? I liked it the first shot. I have no idea why. Maybe because it looked so Santa Claus-ish. But, the spring trim looks good. And, you’re right, why pay a barber when you can do a better (cheaper) job at home?
3) Laughing at nfp’s comment…. Decided the condoms in the pocket should be, rather than prolific, prophylactic.
4) What a sweet son you have. Leaving a pic of himself for you. Heh. Our babies…they’re so easy.
5) What’s the flavor of the fireweed comparable to? (yes…that is a preposition at the end there.)
6) great photoblog Kathy!!! I’ll stop here before I out blog your blog in length here.
Another nice photo essay! Good entry…
Thanks for the memories, and a great trim. Thew long beard looks okay for maybe 20 minutes after I shower–then it starts getting food in it, getting matted down on the side where I sleep, etc. God save me from a “why bother ?” beard–one of those trendy bullshit things that looks like the dude just forgot to shave for a few days–but I’ll take a shorter beard over the Gabby Hayes look any day!