May 14, 2004

  • Another Trip to Wasilla
    My first
    stop yesterday was the waterhole, to fill some jugs for Greyfox. 
    Most of the fireweed in my yard is still at the edible stage, but most
    of  what I saw in the open sunny area around the spring had grown
    past the tender tasty stage into tough, bitter inedibility.  Trees
    in the background at left, on top of the bluff above the spring,
    illustrate at what stage the leafing-out process is now at this end of
    the Susitna Valley.

    Fireweed
    is best, fresh in salad or steamed briefly as you would asparagus, when
    it is still purple-red and before the leaves spread out.  I
    haven’t picked any yet this year.  It’s time to get out there and
    get started… now.

    The
    second stop was at one of my favorite photographic subjects, Lake
    Kashwitna, about 17 miles from home. 
    Last week there had still
    been some rafts of floating ice along the shady margins of the
    lake.  All the ice is gone now.  I must get out the
    fair-weather Fuji because I have UV filters and such for it, but not
    for this little Kodak.  The haze makes “Sleeping Lady”, Mount
    Susitna, in the background, kinda indistinct.  She was really
    shining yesterday, in direct sunlight beyond the cloud cover.

    The
    next three stops for flaggers in the construction zone,  and the
    wait for the pilot car, prove that winter is really over.  Some
    people around here who used to say that our two seasons were
    “mosquitoes and no mosquitoes,” now are saying they are winter and road
    construction.  This job has been moving northward at a rate of
    about 12 miles a year, for three years.  By about 2007 or ’08
    they’ll be tearing up the road in my part of the valley.

    The old army surplus ambulance at right is a vehicle I see on the road
    occasionally.  It must be based not far from here.  The
    vanity plates read “WRWAGN”.  I think it’s cool.  Note how
    much further along the tree-leafing process has come in this
    shot.  This is just south of Willow, about halfway between 
    here and Wasilla.

    These
    next two shots, from the rehab ranch where I volunteer as van driver,
    sorta got me in trouble, I guess.  After I’d shot them, a
    counselor stuck her head out the door and told me, “You can’t take
    pictures out there.”  My unspoken thought, of course, was, “I
    can’t, eh?  But I already did.”  I assured her that there
    were no people in my pics and she pulled her head back in.

    The
    sign on the building at right in the shot at left says,
    “acceptance.”  The picture at right is my favorite part of the
    ranch, the thrift shop, and that tree behind the store appears to be
    fully leafed-out, or close to it..  Yesterday I bought a basket, a
    cream-color corduroy REI shirt, a soup mug with big red hearts on it, a
    soft black cotton headscarf from India, and three packages of
    decorative package-wrapping ribbon, and had some pleasant conversation
    with two of the residents… not my favorite resident, but he noticed I
    was there and came over and stuck his head in the door for a quick
    hello.  The ranch hand who has captured my heart wasn’t around
    yesterday… and I MUST remember, I’m a married woman… don’t know his
    marital status, sexual preference or anything but his first name and
    the facts that he’s a dear man and a true hottie.


    At Felony Flats one of the denizens, a young man with develomental
    difficulties, was playing with his radio-controlled car.  One of
    the cats that Greyfox has been feeding stalked the toy car for a while.
    .
    .

    When the little car started chasing her, she ran and hid under a big car.
    .

    .

    Yesterday evening after Greyfox shut down his stand, as I waited
    outside his cabin for him to change clothes before the meeting, I
    witnessed one of the reasons that strip of cabins and flea market
    booths has come to be called Felony Flats.  It was so uncool, and
    so typical of things I was part of when I hung with bikers and speed
    freaks, that it nicely reinforced my commitment to staying clean and
    serene.

    Several of the people next door were having a difference of opinion,
    outdoors in public, at the tops of their voices.  The topic was
    whether or not a wholesale lot of some kind of drug they’d just
    purchased had been “stepped on” (adulterated), and if so, how much it
    had been and whether or not it would be cool to step on it (or step on
    it again) before they broke it down into smaller packages for resale.

    Inside
    the cabin, Greyfox didn’t catch the gist of the argument, but only
    heard the raised voices.  On our way to the meeting I related the
    text to him.  He said he wished he’d heard; he could have settled
    the argument.  He would have told them that of course the stuff
    had already been walked on and that they should not step on it more
    until they’d sold a first round to their regular customers.  Then
    step on it and sell the weaker stuff to the same jerks.  When they
    come back and complain, just tell them they’re screwed up, been using
    too much of the shit and developed a tolerance.  Duh!

    The
    Old Fart had asked me to bring my scissors in with me and give his
    beard a trim.  The insulation is no longer needed, now that
    winter’s over.  I got this pair of before and after shots.  I
    think he looks better after.  What do you think?

    I’m glad he has started letting me trim his beard regularly.  For
    a while that was a source of contention between us.  He had a
    preference for going to barbers.  He used to have a tendency to
    believe that something was worth more if it cost more, but he’s getting
    over that.  For a while, he used to try to rationalize it with
    some bullshit about how he felt bad making his wife work as his barber,
    too, but I convinced him that I’d rather sculpt his beard myself than
    live with the mess some of those barbers made of it.  After a
    particularly bad barbershop haircut and an uneven beard trim last year
    that I had to even out for him afterward, he’s now seeing it my
    way.  The hair is looking good now, grew out okay from that awful
    haircut and now (after months) has reached the “collar length” he told
    the barber he wanted.  It  won’t need trimming for a while.

    A week or so ago, I gave Doug a haircut and trimmed his beard.  I
    didn’t take any pics because he didn’t seem pleased with the
    idea.  However, this morning  when I got into my picture
    files I found the self-portrait below on the hard drive.

    That’s my boy.   He has his father’s receding hairline, only it
    hasn’t receded quite as far as Charley’s has.  Male pattern
    baldness is sexy, eh?  It’s a sign of high testosterone
    levels.  Before the trim the beard was forked, with one side much
    longer and thicker than the other.  It’s not much of a beard, but
    give it time.  It’s just getting started.

Comments (8)

  • Nice trim of the Old Fart’s beard.  Looks MUCH better!  Wish I’d been able to pick up some of the fireweed seeds when I was there last fall.  They are really pretty plants.  Yes I know they are WEEDS!

  • Re: my poem.You are right I posted it too soon after writing it. But who cares compared to the wonderful and exciting life you lead. I am green with envy!

  • The popularity of barbers and short haircuts just before the turn of last century ( and after the long hair fixation of the Civil war) can be credited to the innovation of barbers dispensing condoms after a ‘haircut’.  Anytime a guy needed a condom, he’d visit the barber shop.  (No such things as ‘all-purpose drug stores’ sold them yet.)  So the demand for barber-supplied condoms drove the demand for alibi-haircuts. Hair got shorter.  Condoms in the pockets of barber-visiting guys became more prolific.  Fashion was defined!

    Clearly, Greyfox is out of the loop!  Give the ‘old fart’ my best regards!  And a ‘Yukon Standard’ shout out to you.

  • LOL at the idea of Greyfox going to a barbershop for a condom. If ever a man didn’t need condoms, he’s the one: vasectomized before I met him and in a committed, long-term relationship with a crone, no need for contraception or STD protection here.

  • HAH!!!!!!!!!!  BTW……….GF’s beard looks AWESOME!!!!!!!  GO  YOU!  I love this post.

    btw….errr……..I mailed TWO BIG BOXES YESTERDAY!!!!!   WHOA!  Dya think I might be able to send that little thingy I dicussed with you…….errrr……hmmm….. TWO FUCKING YEARS AGO?  hmmm?  ya think….?

    Okay, lemme just add some bs in here ….um….i had a little thingy for you and for d but for gf i was stumped and just didna wanna send without including him……….BUY that?

    no?  Okay……..um.  I think I’m ready to start grasping MAILING now.  If there is a diff addy than the one you have already given me…….plse email asap……I’m on a roll

    Love you

  • pictures pictures pictures!!!  Where to start.
    1)  Absolutely love the ambulance.  It reached out and grabbed me right away.
    2)  The beard.  To be honest?  I liked it the first shot.  I have no idea why.  Maybe because it looked so Santa Claus-ish.  But, the spring trim looks good.  And, you’re right, why pay a barber when you can do a better (cheaper) job at home?
    3)  Laughing at nfp’s comment….  Decided the condoms in the pocket should be, rather than prolific, prophylactic. 
    4)  What a sweet son you have.  Leaving a pic of himself for you.  Heh.  Our babies…they’re so easy.
    5)  What’s the flavor of the fireweed comparable to? (yes…that is a preposition at the end there.)
    6) great photoblog Kathy!!!  I’ll stop here before I out blog your blog in length here.

  • Another nice photo essay! Good entry…

  • Thanks for the memories, and a great trim.  Thew long beard looks okay for maybe 20 minutes after I shower–then it starts getting food in it, getting matted down on the side where I sleep, etc.  God save me from a “why bother ?” beard–one of those trendy bullshit things that looks like the dude just forgot to shave for a few days–but I’ll take a shorter beard over the Gabby Hayes look any day!

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