January 17, 2005
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UPDATE
(on top to save those who already know what it’s about from having to
go through it again — but if you don’t know, you can still go down and
read the rest)Predictably, when I told Greyfox about the libelous allegations, he was
all for suing the Amazing Randi. I didn’t think that would work,
since he’s probably protected from liability for statements made by
others on his bulletin boards. Greyfox suggested that I look up
internet libel laws. I did. It was an interesting trip.I found a list of precedents on the Phillips Nizer website, and a detailed article
from Jack M. Balkin in which he says that new laws, protecting
ISPs and website owners from liability for the actions of third
parties, don’t protect the individual writers themselves from suit for
libel. For example, if someone posted a libelous statement in a
chat room, the host and moderators would not be held legally
responsible, and if someone posted a libelous comment on this blog, I
could not be sued for it, but the one who posted the comment could be.
**sigh…**I don’t think that ignorance is bliss. To me, ignorance is a
state of unknowing, a lack of knowledge or education. This is why
I really like my new x-Tracker.
I have only had it a couple of days, but without it I wouldn’t know
that I’m being libeled. I checked the log for KaiOaty and
followed the link to the referring page from which a “guest”
(non-Xangan) reader had come, and Voila! — lies, dirty,
defamatory lies.Of course, if I didn’t know I’d been libeled, I wouldn’t need to decide
whether to take any legal action on it. I suppose that’s what
that old saying about ignorance being bliss really means.Here’s the story: somebody here at Xanga got a bug up her ass
over something about my KaiOaty site. She’s not someone I usually
read, but for some reason (maybe I’m psychic or something) I happened
to read her blog the day she was bitching about it in an oblique
fashion. I asked her what was troubling her, but she didn’t
respond to that opening.Instead, she posted on a BBS devoted to debunking psychics some lies
about me along with links to some pages at KaiOaty which, when taken
out of context, don’t make much sense. When one follows the trail
I built over there and pays attention, it makes sense.The out-of-context page isn’t a major concern. It’s a snide
little joke I made, but I still feel it’s appropriate. Without a
direct link to it such as she posted, the only way anyone would find
that page would be to ask repeatedly for something I had previously
repeatedly said I don’t do, such as giving lucky numbers or investment
advice. Anyone who bothers to read and follow the instructions
would never see it. A few people have deliberately clicked on the
stupid choices to see where they went, and have let me know they
appreciated the joke.The libel is the part I don’t like. She claims that I charge in
advance for readings and then refuse to give refunds. Everyone
who has ever had a reading from me knows that I don’t charge in
advance. Technically speaking, I don’t “charge” at all since no
fee is set and the client is asked only to pay what they feel the
service is worth. Besides that, nobody has ever asked me for a
refund, but this misguided miscreant has invented some “friend” of hers
named Robin to whom she claims I have refused a refund.Months go by sometimes between the times that I think of Roger Aloysius
McShea, the Anchorage lawyer who won a settlement for me seventeen
years ago when my car and one of my knees were totalled by a drunk
driver making an illegal left turn. I like Roger. I haven’t
talked to him in years. He has written a novel and had it
published since the last time I saw him. I know he’s still in
practice, because I just checked the latest phone book and there he
was. Maybe I should call him.My dilemma is manifold. I ask myself if it’s worth the
bother. I know I’d probably have to go to Anchorage — yuk.
I might even need to go to court, which is something else I don’t
particularly enjoy. Heaven knows, I could use some money, since
at least half of the readings I do end up being pro bono because all I
get for them is a thank you. (and I want to take this opportunity right
now to thank those of you who have paid me for my work) But maybe
this tight-jawed and loose-lipped lass has no money. Who
knows? Her true identity is not revealed on her Xanga site.
She might even be a he, for all I know.I’m thinking it over. I’m remembering all the crap I went through
with the last lawsuit, the time spent with the economist Roger hired to
determine a documentable figure for my lost potential income, and the
trips to town, etc. Even if Roger would do it on a contingency fee
basis, multiple trips to Anchorage would cost a lot, both in money and
in terms of my scarce physical resources. On the other hand, my
sense of justice is outraged. I hate lies, not just the
defamatory ones told about me, but any lies about anything. Liars
are the lowest form of life.

Comments (14)
I agree with that last statement.
Whatever you decide to do, I wish you all the best with it. (Hey, if you need any testimonials, I’ll be glad to pipe up in your defense!)
I followed a link at KaiOaty that said “Don’t click here!” and was much amused by what it showed me.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
(wo)man, now i know something REALLY pissing you off…….
good point… very good point… I didn’t tie it together but you did…
hm. i think i need to go play at kaioaty’s place some day. i’ve never clicked around on the links because i pretty much understood what was said up top.
Why do some people act the way they do?
it’s not worth it … a few minutes of investigation by anyone on that board would reveal the woman’s lying … and people are always shooting their mouths off carelessly on the internet
i’ve seen astrologers and such threaten libel on usenet … it’s the WORST thing they could have done as these skeptics are as dire and bloodhoundful as the spanish inquisition … almost like a religious sense of duty … they could end up mocking you constantly on that board, i’ve seen it before
and then there’s the legal process and the chance someone might start a crusade over how this woman’s “free speech” has been “violated” … i’ve seen that happen before, too … and for what damages? … whatever you can show you’ve lost in business
it’s going to be a headache for very little gain … i wouldn’t do it … i’ve been saying this a lot lately … never get into a pissing contest with a skunk
Might be more trouble than it’s worth.
It’s probably more trouble than it’s worth, especially if it’s a simple matter to follow linkage and see the truth. I hadn’t realized that little group had taken their comments so far… Perhaps I’ll check it out again.
Oh, and I also followed all the links and was greatly amused! Then I got my reading. *shaking head* Some people are so literal!
I am so glad I decided to come back. I was looking for a new post and realized I had not read this one. I don’t know about these people or why they would attack you for the work you do. I do know that I came to you when my worried mind just couldn’t still and you gave me peace and you did so without ever asking for payment. Money was never mentioned. Not once! I sent a gift and that wasn’t discussed. Don’t let anyone steal your joy because you take that joy and pass it around. Negativity is alone without power…it finds vehicles so it can try to defeat it’s enemy which is positivity, passion, love, hope. You are strong and I know you won’t allow this to take what you have and what you give so freely to the world.
I’ve been subjected to a few lies myself. I keep suggesting that just because it’s posted on the net doesn’t make it true!
I’m glad you sorted it out for yourself. I hate injustice, and sometimes that feeling overwhelms rational thought (and my blood pressure
). Usually if I step back I know it’s not worth my health, but I just hate letting people get away with things. I see anarchy threatening everywhere I go, I guess 
I used that Xtracker, and I liked it, but it’s off-line more than it’s on. Finally a few weeks ago it was out so long it removed my membership completely. At that point I gave up. I just looked again, and I couldn’t sign up if I wanted to. The kid’s heart is in the right place, but he doesn’t have the resources behind the product.
I am amazed at how people find the links that refer to them negatively. I don’t know how at this point but I think if I did, it would quickly sour me to writing anything on xanga or any other blog. Sorry to hear about the lies about you.