August 20, 2002
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1954-55
In seventh
grade, it was my first year in Wichita, Hamilton Jr. High, and I had
made a friend in the neighborhood during the summer (that came out
typoed as “simmer”, freudian typo for Kansas summers), Martha Lou
Prilliman. I knew her name before I met her. Her mother called out,
Maar-thee Loo-UU, almost yodeling at the end, several times a day, and
the girl would scoot from her yard, or down the block, into the house.
Then we met somehow, broke
the ice and started spending about as much time together in her house
as in mine or out in the neighborhood.Martha was nearly as new to the
neighborhood as I was. Her father had just moved the family there where
he was supervising a big construction job for Peter Kiewit. Our
birthdays were just two days apart, but she was two years older, which
put us in the same grade in school. We clicked. We watched American
Bandstand and coached each other to get the steps right. We went to
movies a lot because my mother was dating a projectionist and we had
passes twice a week, Friday night and Saturday afternoon.The two of us made other friends after the
school year started, and on the way home from school we would stop in at the drugstore
soda fountain for Cokes, four or five of us squeezed into a booth. It
was one of two drugstores a few blocks apart, this one at Broadway and Lincoln, the
other on Harry and Osie, I think. Our clique’s homes were scattered in
three directions from the Lincoln Street store (I wish I could recall
it’s name.) Our friends would turn
off to the east or continue south, and Martha and I would turn west,
all of us sticking to the route our parents prescribed: “You come
STRAIGHT home!”Sometime that school term someone came up
with the idea of putting aspirin in Coke to get high. I think the idea
came from TV or a movie, but it could have been simple word-of-mouth urban myth. My friends would all have cherry Cokes and I
would have a vanilla Coke. I’ve started to salivate thinking of vanilla
Coke–and it’s in the stores NOW! It was especially good with the added
tang of acetyl salicylic acid, but the aspirin made it fizz up and
overflow so I sometimes had sticky stuff on my elbows or where it
dripped from the table onto my lap.From time to time for as long as Martha and
I lived in the neighborhood, one or more of the Woods kids who lived up
the block would taunt or jeer or threaten us or some other of the
littler kids. They were a miserable, belligerent family headed by an
alcoholic single father. The Woods boys, all 5 teen-to-young-adult brothers, were
big boys, and their little sister Priscilla was a lot bigger than I
was, and even a little bigger than Martha. She was a lot rougher and
more mature-seeming, too. We were surprised when school started, to
find her in seventh grade with us.Priscilla belonged to a bunch of tough
girls who wore black leather jackets and gobs of inexpertly applied
makeup. Some of her friends were in eighth or ninth grade. Maybe it had taken
Priscilla more than the usual six years to get to seventh grade.One day someone said something or said that
Martha said something and the outcome was a sidewalk shoving match,
with Priscilla giving Martha repeated two-handed pushes in the chest.
Martha gave ground gradually until I tackled Priscilla from the side.
Well, it wasn’t a tackle, exactly… more like I fell on her, but it stopped the
shoving match. Priscilla came up slugging, windmilling her fists at
Martha. I grabbed her from behind in a bear hug and then an adult
intervened, the owner of the drugstore.Next day, all three of us were in the
principal’s office. He mapped out three separate routes to our
respective homes and sent the maps to our parents. The rest of the
school year, Priscilla and her girlthugs held court in their booth in
OUR drugstore. My route took me past the other drug store, The Owl, but
after my first Coke there, alone among a gaggle of cliques to which I didn’t belong, I just skipped the after-school Cokes
and hurried home to watch Bandstand. Poor Martha’s route bypassed both
of the neighborhood soda fountains, so she didn’t even have the option.
We used to race sometimes, a slow, walking race because neither of us
liked to run, along our separate routes, and watch Bandstand at the
loser’s house.The Woods’s house was on a corner. My route
kept me on the opposite side of one of the streets and Martha across
the perpendicular street. Sometimes, striding down that penultimate
block to the finish, maybe breaking into a brief sprint if the finish
was close, we’d have two or three Woods brothers and maybe their Dad,
jeering us on. Priscilla, of course, was doing the social thing at the
soda shoppe. The “race” was ten city blocks for each of us, once a day
because mornings we trudged half-asleep. Racing then would have been
out of the question. Martha had an advantage in length of stride,
and she
won more oftenThe TV where we usually watched Bandstand
was in an alcove off my aunt Alice’s (“Granny’s”) front room. It was filled with
houseplants and around this time it was inhabited by my
chameleon. When I got home, he would scamper as far out as he could on
the closest plant to me and flash colors at me. He’d nose me if I stuck
my nose out, and you know I did. Loved the feel of that cool little
lizard nose on the tip of mine. And I can still dance the bop. I was
bopping around here last night, briefly. Don’t even WANT to dance all
night at this stage of my life, but I wouldn’t mind being ABLE to.
Comments (12)
i love wichita. you grew up there?
thanks for the tips, but i’ll have you know: i never “poo.”
That must be Ozzie euphemism, that “poo”… I suppose I could have edited into any of several offensive forms. I lived in Wichita a few years in the mid-’fifties, and was back there for a few years in the early ‘sixties. I don’t know about “growing up”.
He loves Wichita? Huh.
The title idea’s okay. It doesn’t grab me but few do. It’d make me look, though.
You know…kind of makes you nostalgic when fights could be solved by shoving, tackling, bearhugs and a trip to the principal’s office. Nowadays there’d be a weapon of somesort and the principal would be too afraid of squelching the dear ones adventuresome nature and of the parent’s attorney. pah.
You know what else? I made BLT’s tonight. I could’ve used advice #2 when slicing the tomatoes. Damn! I was too busy to read this at work…that’ll learn me.
and screw the cigar tube lid on TIGHTLY.
sorry if the wichita comment or what i said about the title wasn’t too nice. man. i’m in a down mood tonight…
i’ll just scuttle off now.
I’ve been trying to use my own Xanga site to work through the Chronic Fatigue illness and other health problems I’ve been experiencing too… I haven’t written anything nostalgic as you have yet, but I have found that ever since I’ve been sorting through my health issues, I have been reminiscing more than ever before. Is it a true possibility that our emotions and past actions influence our current state of health? As we shed and work through the old, we awaken the new physical and spiritual realms. Keep up your Shamanic work… I will be thinking of you.
Marianne. xxx
I like the title. The RCH part is definetly original!, lol
And ‘poo’ is such a gross word,isn’t it? I like ‘shit’ much better.
As for the childhood story, it reminds me of mine…I can almost see the places you talk about. I have been to them many times, just in a different stead.
I’m playing catch up here, forgive me. Been busy. And sick with a corker of a cold. Yippee.
Best wishes as always.
you should get published…I love reading every blog. I also found those tips to be really helpful LMAO
hmmm…I thought we used a stubbie full of blow-flies for a cheap vibrator here
so so super, SuSu. As always.
I just tried that tip with my goldfish and you know what? It really works! That’s great!
I LOVE vanilla cokes!
How beautiful the photos, and informative the post….SMILING.