August 20, 2002

  • 1954-55

    In seventh
    grade, it was my first year in Wichita, Hamilton Jr. High, and I had
    made a friend in the neighborhood during the summer (that came out
    typoed as “simmer”, freudian typo for Kansas summers), Martha Lou
    Prilliman. I knew her name before I met her. Her mother called out,
    Maar-thee Loo-UU, almost yodeling at the end, several times a day, and
    the girl would scoot from her yard, or down the block, into the house.
    Then we met somehow, broke
    the ice and started spending about as much time together in her house
    as in mine or out in the neighborhood.

    Martha was nearly as new to the
    neighborhood as I was. Her father had just moved the family there where
    he was supervising a big construction job for Peter Kiewit. Our
    birthdays were just two days apart, but she was two years older, which
    put us in the same grade in school. We clicked. We watched American
    Bandstand and coached each other to get the steps right. We went to
    movies a lot because my mother was dating a projectionist and we had
    passes twice a week, Friday night and Saturday afternoon.

    The two of us made other friends after the
    school year started, and on the way home from school we would stop in at the drugstore
    soda fountain for Cokes, four or five of us squeezed into a booth. It
    was one of two drugstores a few blocks apart, this one at Broadway and Lincoln, the
    other on Harry and Osie, I think. Our clique’s homes were scattered in
    three directions from the Lincoln Street store (I wish I could recall
    it’s name.) Our friends would turn
    off to the east or continue south, and Martha and I would turn west,
    all of us sticking to the route our parents prescribed: “You come
    STRAIGHT home!”

    Sometime that school term someone came up
    with the idea of putting aspirin in Coke to get high. I think the idea
    came from TV or a movie, but it could have been simple word-of-mouth urban myth. My friends would all have cherry Cokes and I
    would have a vanilla Coke. I’ve started to salivate thinking of vanilla
    Coke–and it’s in the stores NOW! It was especially good with the added
    tang of acetyl salicylic acid, but the aspirin made it fizz up and
    overflow so I sometimes had sticky stuff on my elbows or where it
    dripped from the table onto my lap.

    From time to time for as long as Martha and
    I lived in the neighborhood, one or more of the Woods kids who lived up
    the block would taunt or jeer or threaten us or some other of the
    littler kids. They were a miserable, belligerent family headed by an
    alcoholic single father. The Woods boys, all 5 teen-to-young-adult brothers, were
    big boys, and their little sister Priscilla was a lot bigger than I
    was, and even a little bigger than Martha. She was a lot rougher and
    more mature-seeming, too. We were surprised when school started, to
    find her in seventh grade with us.

    Priscilla belonged to a bunch of tough
    girls who wore black leather jackets and gobs of inexpertly applied
    makeup. Some of her friends were in eighth or ninth grade. Maybe it had taken
    Priscilla more than the usual six years to get to seventh grade.

    One day someone said something or said that
    Martha said something and the outcome was a sidewalk shoving match,
    with Priscilla giving Martha repeated two-handed pushes in the chest.
    Martha gave ground gradually until I tackled Priscilla from the side.
    Well, it wasn’t a tackle, exactly… more like I fell on her, but it stopped the
    shoving match. Priscilla came up slugging, windmilling her fists at
    Martha. I grabbed her from behind in a bear hug and then an adult
    intervened, the owner of the drugstore.

    Next day, all three of us were in the
    principal’s office. He mapped out three separate routes to our
    respective homes and sent the maps to our parents. The rest of the
    school year, Priscilla and her girlthugs held court in their booth in
    OUR drugstore. My route took me past the other drug store, The Owl, but
    after my first Coke there, alone among a gaggle of cliques to which I didn’t belong, I just skipped the after-school Cokes
    and hurried home to watch Bandstand. Poor Martha’s route bypassed both
    of the neighborhood soda fountains, so she didn’t even have the option.
    We used to race sometimes, a slow, walking race because neither of us
    liked to run, along our separate routes, and watch Bandstand at the
    loser’s house.

    The Woods’s house was on a corner. My route
    kept me on the opposite side of one of the streets and Martha across
    the perpendicular street. Sometimes, striding down that penultimate
    block to the finish, maybe breaking into a brief sprint if the finish
    was close, we’d have two or three Woods brothers and maybe their Dad,
    jeering us on. Priscilla, of course, was doing the social thing at the
    soda shoppe. The “race” was ten city blocks for each of us, once a day
    because mornings we trudged half-asleep. Racing then would have been
    out of the question.  Martha had an advantage in length of stride,
    and she
    won more often

    The TV where we usually watched Bandstand
    was in an alcove off my aunt Alice’s (“Granny’s”) front room. It was filled with
    houseplants and around this time it was inhabited by my
    chameleon. When I got home, he would scamper as far out as he could on
    the closest plant to me and flash colors at me. He’d nose me if I stuck
    my nose out, and you know I did. Loved the feel of that cool little
    lizard nose on the tip of mine. And I can still dance the bop. I was
    bopping around here last night, briefly. Don’t even WANT to dance all
    night at this stage of my life, but I wouldn’t mind being ABLE to.

Comments (12)

  • i love wichita. you grew up there?

    thanks for the tips, but i’ll have you know: i never “poo.”

  • That must be Ozzie euphemism, that “poo”… I suppose I could have edited into any of several offensive forms.  I lived in Wichita a few years in the mid-’fifties, and was back there for a few years in the early ‘sixties.  I don’t know about “growing up”.

  • He loves Wichita?  Huh. 

    The title idea’s okay.  It doesn’t grab me but few do.  It’d make me look, though.

    You know…kind of makes you nostalgic when fights could be solved by shoving, tackling, bearhugs and a trip to the principal’s office.  Nowadays there’d be a weapon of somesort and the principal would be too afraid of squelching the dear ones adventuresome nature and of the parent’s attorney.  pah.

    You know what else? I made BLT’s tonight.  I could’ve used advice #2 when slicing the tomatoes.  Damn!  I was too busy to read this at work…that’ll learn me.

  • and screw the cigar tube lid on TIGHTLY.

  • sorry if the wichita comment or what i said about the title wasn’t too nice.  man.  i’m in a down mood tonight…

    i’ll just scuttle off now. 

  • I’ve been trying to use my own Xanga site to work through the Chronic Fatigue illness and other health problems I’ve been experiencing too… I haven’t written anything nostalgic as you have yet, but I have found that ever since I’ve been sorting through my health issues, I have been reminiscing more than ever before.  Is it a true possibility that our emotions and past actions influence our current state of health?  As we shed and work through the old, we awaken the new physical and spiritual realms. Keep up your Shamanic work… I will be thinking of you. :)

    Marianne. xxx

  • I like the title.  The RCH part is definetly original!, lol

    And ‘poo’ is such a gross word,isn’t it?  I like ‘shit’ much better.

    As for the childhood story, it reminds me of mine…I can almost see the places you talk about.  I have been to them many times, just in a different stead.

    I’m playing catch up here, forgive me. Been busy. And sick with a corker of a cold. Yippee. 

    Best wishes as always.

  • you should get published…I love reading every blog.  I also found those tips to be really helpful LMAO

  • hmmm…I thought we used a stubbie full of blow-flies for a cheap vibrator here

  • so so super, SuSu. As always.
    I just tried that tip with my goldfish and you know what? It really works! That’s great!

  • I LOVE vanilla cokes! 

  • How beautiful the photos, and informative the post….SMILING.

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