February 21, 2009
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Current Absurdities
One of the featured blogs on Xanga’s front page today is a rant against a particular new video game I had never heard of, RapeLay. In hysterical tones — various forms of text emphasis as well as exclamatory punctuation and forceful, frenzied verbal expression — the writer declares her judgment against Japan — the entire nation — for this abomination. There are clues within the text suggesting that this woman considers herself a feminist and thinks the existence of that game is a feminist issue.
I am impelled, under the circumstances, to wonder if she would feel as strongly about a game in which players raped men. Would she enjoy playing a game in which the challenge involved going around raping men? …Japanese men? I had been briefly tempted to ask her, and got as far as clicking on her comments. The first one I read was from a man who implied that in the light of this information he now feels better about playing Grand Theft Auto. For the information of those out of that particular loop, GTA involves a lot of killing, the victims or enemies one kills are predominately male, and all the sex, with girlfriends and female hookers, is consensual.
I was reminded of the very vocal movement, prominent during the ‘nineties, to suppress violent video games on the theory that they promoted actual violence in real life. After much discussion and consideration, my family concluded that violent games are more likely to harmlessly express and sublimate violent urges than they are to stimulate them. It works that way for us, and for others we have observed and consulted. We think that a person who would take video game violence out into the real world would have had some serious mental health issues even before exposure to the game. Since rape is about violence and not about sex, I assume that the same conclusions would be valid there, too.
One thing is obvious: if there were not a market for such games, nobody would waste resources creating them. If nobody has created a game for female players to turn the rape around on men, they might be missing out on a business opportunity. A while back, my half-Japanese friend Lyn, who lives in a suburb of Tokyo, told me that the feminist movement in Japan is much more rancorous and contentious than was the American women’s liberation movement of the ‘seventies. That makes sense, given the greater degree of female subjugation traditional to their culture.
It also helps explain the popularity of rape fantasies among Japanese men. Lyn said that many women were treating men with great contempt, exploiting them and inflicting public humiliation. That could be expected to arouse backlash from men who have for centuries enjoyed the privilege of exploiting and contemptuously humiliating women. On a superficial intellectual level, I think I understand that Xangan woman’s offended feminist sensitivity. I just think she has taken it to an absurd extreme, in a mistaken direction, on a false premise. …but I’m not a feminist any more. I now support equality for all.
As I started writing this, Doug awoke on the couch just off my starboard beam, and I took advantage of the opportunity to consult my video game expert. I asked him if he was familiar with a game in which the play focused on men raping women. He informed me that it is an entire genre, a subset of eroge (エロゲー), or hentai-based video games. He considers eroge to be, “too much effort for too little payoff.” He doesn’t have a favorite genre and enjoys playing everything but sports simulations and straight racing games. He says, “Basically, I enjoy playing games that let me do things I can’t do in real life.” Me, too.
Much of the news I hear lately involves the nation’s economic difficulties. NPR has been giving the story some personal touches by talking to people about the specific ways in which it is affecting their families. Early on, it dawned on Greyfox and me that we have some big social advantages now, conferred on us by virtue of our having grown up in families who lived below the poverty line.He mentioned last night that he had heard or read about previously prosperous people who had lost their incomes, and could no longer afford to feed their families. Reduced to going to a food bank for groceries, they would walk in, look around, say, “I can’t deal with this,” and walk out empty-handed. If they lack such a simple skill as asking for charity, how likely are they to be jumping into a dumpster to steal a little salvage?
In most jurisdictions, it is technically illegal to take trash unless you are doing it in your official capacity as a sanitation worker. The rationales for such laws include issues of privacy (bullshit) and public health (probably a valid issue for the ignorant and careless masses). The privacy issue is bullshit because even if one doesn’t consider the presence of dumpster divers, everyone presumably knows that cops routinely search through trash for evidence, and anyone with two brain cells to rub together would assume that garbage collectors skim off the best of the mungo they collect, and have to look through the trash to find it.
Greyfox‘s forays into the dumpsters at Felony Flats are aided by garden tools that let him handle things remotely. Personally, I prefer wearing waterproof gloves and getting up close. Fortunately for me, Greyfox recently salvaged several hundred protective vinyl gloves from one of those dumpsters. …but I digressed a little there. I had meant to say something about the people who are inconvenienced or even suffering because they now have less money to spend on luxuries, not about those of us who have traditionally benefited by sifting through the useful things they habitually throw away.
Maybe I should stick to writing what I know. I know that we have not felt the economic pinch yet. Our deadbeat clients still don’t pay us for our services — nothing new about that. Those clients who do pay us are not paying any less than they used to, and the proportion of clients who say they will pay and then don’t has not risen noticeably. Greyfox’s business remains as marginally profitable as ever. Apparently either the Alaskans who buy guns and knives haven’t felt the pinch yet or, if they have, economic insecurity is impelling more people to purchase weapons.
My being positioned for and skilled at wild foraging, and Greyfox’s access to abundant sources of salvage, as well as his retail acumen and Doug’s practical skills and talent for crisis response, have set us up to get through hard economic times with much less stress and strain than is being experienced by more prosperous Americans. We’ve marvelled all our lives at those people who toss out all that good junk with which we supplement our incomes and enrich our material existence. Even if their currently reduced circumstances result in a reduction of the mungo stream and more competition in the dumpsters, we will muddle through.
Comments (26)
feminism IS equality for all!
i mostly agree about the gaming thing… i think it diffuses violence more than it spreads it… however I don’t think whether or not there is a market for something has anything to do with whether or not it should be allowed, if that’s what you meant in the one paragraph. There certainly is a market for child pornography- that doesn’t validate the distribution of such.
@ScarletMoth - Feminism is sexism, female chauvinism. It promotes divisiveness. Sexism is sexism, whether it favors males or females. I learned that as a feminist, a phase I have subsequently outgrown.
Legislating against popular “vices” does not eliminate them. It does promote a profitable underground economy.
I wrote, ” if there were not a market for such games, nobody would waste resources creating them.” That is precisely what I meant and nothing anywhere in my essay implied anything about “allowing” or prohibiting anything.
I would not advocate suppressing that woman’s hysterical expression of her misguided opposition to… whatever. Nor would I advocate suppressing anyone else’s harmless expression of anything else.
Currently, several teenage girls have gotten criminal records as child pornographers and become registered sex offenders for sending nude cell phone images of themselves to their boyfriends. Are you implying that you approve of that?
I support the U.S. Constitution and have particular respect for the first two amendments. I supported the ERA, too. I will support it if it comes up again.
The game, of course, is offensive, but, from my perspective, so are the vast majority of video games sold today. Prohibiting things because of their offensiveness is a slippery slope indeed. I have no clue how one is to decide whether it is worse (in a video game) to rape a woman or to cut off the heads of hundreds of people, regardless of gender, race or nationality. It would seem that these games are both a reflection of and a contributing factor in our popular culture. But it is also evident that playing video games does not lead the gamer to try it “in real life.” Any more than reading In Cold Blood turns readers into cold-blooded killers. Because the relationship between playing a violent game and performing a violent act is a matter of correlation not causation. Playing a violent game does not cause the individual to engage in a violent act. But for some individuals, there may be a correlation between the two events. For that individual, both events are presumably caused by a third element, such as mental illness. To focus on the game is to miss the “real” issues of violence and mental health. Thanks for a thought-provoking post.
I find this whole economic crisis very strange. I mean, 97% of the population is employed. Scratches head?
I was reading somewhere else recently that those who are used to living on less will fare the best out of everyone while things are a bit tight economically.
@C_L_O_G - I question that statistic. For one thing, it differs from the latest numbers I heard in media. For another, it’s meaningless. You must be subtracting some unemployment number from 100%, without any allowance for the percentage of the population that neither has a job nor is officially “unemployed.” Unemployment statistics have never included the “discouraged” job seekers whose unemployment compensation has run out and they have been turned down for so many jobs that they stopped looking and went to work in the underground economy or found somebody to give them shelter and food. The PhDs flipping burgers at McDonalds, and forcibly “retired” seniors who still must work to survive, so they greet customers at Wal-Mart, are counted as “employed,” and so are the couples who both work at minimum wage jobs whose income would still qualify them for food stamps, if they weren’t living in their car so that they have no permanent address to put on the application.
**thumbs nose**
I live on very little money, Im paying off credit cards, which was a stupid thing to get, and I just paid off my tiny mobile home that I can now call my own !!
You’re right, I’m not counting the gray areas that are estimated. The current official rate today is 7.6%. If the gray areas are included I’ve seen it all the way from 15% to 25%.
I know very few unemployed people and of the ones I know many of them are living on their unemployment and doing side work for cash. Some are in college collecting both unemployment and Pell Grant money so they can get the education they always wanted. Some people I know have recently gotten jobs paying $16 an hour. One person has turned down two jobs paying in &60,000′s a year because they weren’t exactly what they wanted.
All I’m saying is, the whole thing doesn’t make a lot of sense to me. The parts don’t all fit together nicely. The phone company is hiring, the power company is hiring, the cable company is hiring. The restaurants and clubs are still crowded on Friday and Saturday nights and one still has to wait in line to eat out for lunch on Sunday if church gets out late.
@C_L_O_G - The biggest current economic problems are mostly in the credit and banking areas, and in old-style manufacturing. One reality in the U.S. is that as time goes by, more and more of the wealth is concentrated in less and less of the population. At the same time that this is going on, the wealth held at the top of the pile grows greater and the poverty and deprivation of those at the bottom deepens.
The government fears discontent among the middle class. The stimulus is an attempt to (a) prevent full-scale collapse of the financial sector where much of their campaign support originates and (b) keep the middle class from descending into poverty and violent revolt. Are you familiar with the “bread and circuses” strategy of ancient Roman rulers? In December, 2007, 1.3 million people received Food Stamps. By December, 2008, it was up to 1.4 million, and applications have surged in the past couple of months, more in some regions than others. A big chunk of the stimulus money is going for DTV converter boxes.
@C_L_O_G - Oh, I neglected to mention that the current unemployment rate you cited above is more than double what you apparently were citing in your first comment. What’s up with that?
i don’t know about the first assumption. violence seen is violence done many time on my street.
Can’t say they wouldn’t do it other wise. But studies about small kids and seeing any kind of violence on TV and in the home has a very real effect on a developing brain. Why even fights in a home are bad.
Why we don’t allow them just yet. I even noticed my kids getting violent after playing Zelda. I have to tell them to tone their sticks down a bit outside. They would actually hit each other without remorse. So I wonder if letting free will run amock is any good. I tend to believe in some order.
Some of these game sellers only care about money so in the end that is there main objective.
Materilaism is bad too but hard to escape. So is the objectifying of men and women as objects to use. Why I wonder about this game.
I refuse to Play GTA. I did once, made me feel sick.
Sorry But that is my personal view. I am sure others agree and disagree.
so be it. I am more pragmatic about my feelings and findings. i think about the effects on my kids.
If you live in a high crime area you worry more about thses things. Since after awhile it seems normal to be a drug dealer or thug. I hate that.
anywho My 2 worthless cents…
@SuSu - Sorry, sometimes I don’t subtract right. My bad. I apologize. I should have said 93% the first time. I did the same thing at lunch today when a group was talking about the same subject.
@SuSu - I totally agree with this. You are correct!
Your bullshit meter is dead on. Games don’t make people violent any more than music does or movies do or books do. Blah, blah, blah. I’ve played all the Grand Theft Auto games. Enjoy them. Of course, when I’m very angry I like really violent music… the more violent the music, the calmer I get. Seems backwards, but… it works for me.
And I agree about the other. My family’s never had much money, so we’ve learned to do without a lot. So… this economy really hasn’t impacted us at all. Maybe it will eventually… but I think we’ll still fare better than many others.
I heard about that game and had my husband read an article on it. He didn’t say anything though. He’s the gamer not me. I normally don’t pay attention to games, but I wouldn’t want that one around. If I had kids I’d be crazy with what I would and wouldn’t let them see. My parents were the same way with me and although there were a few times I thought it was unfair, I think it worked out for me in that area.
As for the other half of your entry. I wouldn’t be opposed to asking for charity if I had to, which would be a big deal. I hate even asking to borrow something from my parents or family. I’ve done it when it’s been absolutely necessary. I suppose when it gets to that line that’s what you have to do. As for the dumpster/trash thing. I’d have to have my husband do it and even then I’m not sure. I’d be creepying out over germs/dirt. Ever seen the show Monk? I’m not as bad as him, but I can completely understand his view point.
sheltered me the last video game i remember playing was lion king with my daughter when she was very young on an atari we dont have any longer – i am amazed over how real the games look on the commericals on tv, i dont watch that much either. The person that couldn’t deal with it, well ptiy him. i have never been well off and always worked hard, lately yes the treadmill has been turned up a few notches faster and harder – we do what we must do – having a family and helping keep them alive whether it be from charity or not is a responsiblity of a family member. sad hungry family because one person is full of pride that he couldnt swallow they have no dinner. enjoy your sunday, sassy
I have nothing but respect for your survival and thrive-al abilities and know I would be hard pressed to survive as well as you do, especially given the harsh winters. People who don’t have firsthand anything don’t feel economic pinches. People who have always been have-nots continue on as they were before. Lightning doesn’t strike cabbages.
good post!
I like how you do not find everrything a symbolic threat poised to wreak havok on our reality. I find it almost unfair that the opressed in this life must fight visciouly for respect as opressors never seem to be enlightened any other way-and I don’t mean fighting fire with fire either. I am not tickled that trash in hallowed as if it came with some well executed will- unlike thoughtful human beings. if you’ll pardon a quote with many entendres so i can apply it to the whole post, “Then, Madamoiselle, you might notice in ‘Casablanca,’ Human life is cheap.”
@SuSu - I feel like feminism is what you make of it… and I think feminism is about equality. At least where I’m from, it’s about having the same rights, the same opportunities, not having… more than a guy.
Okay… I guess I just didn’t get the purpose of the statement, then…
Am I implying that I approve of what, them getting charged, or them sending the pictures in the first place? I’m not sure that’s the same sort of example though since it doesn’t involve a market… no exchange of goods. But no, I don’t approve of child porn.
@ScarletMoth - Pornography does not necessarily involve a “market.” There is porn, and then there is the trade in porn, just as, for example, there are drugs and then there is the drug trade. Pornographers, in law, produce and transmit or disseminate words or images with an intent to arouse the reader or viewer sexually, not necessarily for profit. I was asking if you approve of teenagers having their educational, employment, credit, housing and social opportunities restricted for life because they used their favorite technology to tease their boyfriends. Your disapproval of their action and ready acceptance of the harsh penalties they face is, in my opinion, both draconian and irrational… oh, and prudish, too.
“I feel like feminism is what you make of it… and I think feminism is about equality.” So, tell me, what do you feel like “semantics” means… and do you think there is any difference between thinking and feeling? If you are still in school, you might consider some English comp. classes. A survey course in philosophy might broaden your viewpoint, as well.
Feminism focuses on females’ issues, females’ rights, and females’ privilege. If the equal rights movement had not been associated with feminism, it could have had a better chance of success. Equality can be accepted and supported by thoughtful and highly evolved people of all types. Feminism will always face resistance from some males, just as patriarchy and male chauvinism will always encounter opposition from some women. Words have power.
@warweasel - ”…when I’m very angry I like really violent music… the more violent the music, the calmer I get.”
That seems to me an effective and non-destructive way to defuse anger. I think it works that way for most people. Virtual violence or vicarious mayhem exercises the same parts of the brain, produces the same neurochemistry, as the real thing, without the dire consequences. I suppose it might also have some addictive qualities — adrenaline (in the anger) is addictive, and dopamine (from release)….
@butshebites - ”Lightning doesn’t strike cabbages.” That’s a new one to me. Is that an old proverb? It has the “feel” of some in a book I have of old Russian proverbs. They are things like, “The nail that sticks up gets hammered down.”
@Uncious - In Casablanca, human life is cheap and thieves are everywhere. You’ve left me smiling with that quote. My Old Fart is fond of quoting Casablanca, and I’m quite fond of him. More to the point, injustice is a troubling matter. When I was younger I fought hard against injustice that oppressed me. Now I work hard not to be an oppressor or unfair to others. I guess I just got tired of fighting reality, spitting into the wind, trying to sweep back the tide. It’s relatively easy to sit here and denounce absurdity.
@SuSu - ooo! Easy comeback cliche; “the pen is mightier than the sword!” There are those whom must fight on the front-lines of passions- be they wars or just wars of ideals. But many more support the front liners from more powerful positions behind desks (work with me here if you sit indian-style with a laptop!) I’ve seen the door slam in my face and i’ve had a reasonable discussion of beliefs with a young Satanist (He 17: his father also a front-liner in the the prolife camp driving the gorry “abortion mobile”- you guess whether he was just being rebellious.) I’ll leave as I’ve led with a closing cliche (but not the one that gets me shot in the foot like on “Blazing Saddles”) with, ‘it’s easier to attract bees with honey rather than vinager.’
@SuSu - a market is giving someone money in exchange for a product; i would say there is a considerable market for porn. Millions of dollars. People are in it for the money, not just to get random people turned on.
I don’t think it is prudish to expect people to follow the law regardless of their personal intentions. Where do you draw the line with that? Is it okay for a six year old to post pictures of herself/himself on the internet for anyone to look at, then? And it’s ultimately for the protection of the youth, even if this particular girl gets the bad end of the stick. But so long as a law exists prohibiting the distribution of child porn, we all should be expected to follow this law.
There is a difference between feeling and definition but I feel like the definition of feminism is “equal rights and equal opportunity” so I was approaching it from your viewpoint of “it feels unequal.” Of course feminism is about women, specifically, but it’s still about equality. And like anything, feminism is a very broad term covering many different groups. The definition for Christianity differs from christian to christian and church to church; feminism is much the same.
@ScarletMoth - Pay attention. Those teen girls who were busted for porn because they sent their nude pics to their boyfriends weren’t selling anything. You are so focused on your twisted ideas you can’t see the facts. A woman once was busted for kiddie porn because she took a picture of her baby in his bath to send to his grandmother. People make “porn” all the time for private non-commercial purposes. To think otherwise is either massively ignorant or simply nuts.
To answer the rest of your questions, see my latest post.
@SuSu - uugh. i know people make porn for non-commercial purposes. That doesn’t change the fact that there IS a market for it, not that I’m sure why that was even an important issue anyways.
@ScarletMoth - ” People are in it for the money, not just to get random people turned on.” Your words.
“Pornography does not necessarily involve a
“market.” There is porn, and then there is the trade in porn, just as,
for example, there are drugs and then there is the drug trade.” My words.
The importance of an issue is a matter of opinion or perception. It is an issue because you made an issue of it by disputing a fact you now acknowledge.
Has anyone else ever pointed out to you that you tend to just spew words without paying attention to what you say?