September 3, 2007
-
More Things that Explain Life
In my own words:
Death is part of life. Living in fear is harder than dying. Why fear dying?
In the words of some other people:
(In response to a Featured_Grownups challenge.)He not busy being born is busy dying.
–Bob DylanLife is like an onion: You peel it off one layer at a time, and sometimes you weep.
–Carl SandburgBecause I have loved life, I shall have no sorrow to die.
–Amelia BurrThe fear of death is more to be dreaded than death itself.
–Publilius Syrus (ca.100 BC)Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live.
–Dorothy ThompsonThe opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference.
The opposite of art is not ugliness, it’s indifference.
The opposite of faith is not heresy, it’s indifference.
And the opposite of life is not death, it’s indifference.
–Elie Wiesel (Oct. 1986)Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.
–Helen KellerIf my doctor told me I had only six minutes to live, I wouldn’t brood. I’d type a little faster.
–Isaac AsimovLife is pleasant. Death is peaceful. It’s the transition that’s troublesome.
–Isaac AsimovLife is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.
–John LennonAnd thou wilt give thyself relief, if thou doest every act of thy life as if it were the last.
–Marcus AureliusTo live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.
–Oscar WildeAnd now the end is near
And so I face the final curtain,
My friends, I’ll say it clear,
I’ll state my case of which I’m certain.
I’ve lived a life that’s full, I’ve traveled each and evr’y highway
And more, much more than this, I did it my way.
–Paul AnkaIn three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on.
–Robert FrostPeople living deeply have no fear of death.
–Anais NinDeath? Why this fuss about death. Use your imagination, try to visualize a world without death! … Death is the essential condition of life, not an evil.
–Charlotte Perkins GilmanHuman life consists in mutual service. No grief, pain, misfortune, or “broken heart,” is excuse for cutting off one’s life while any power of service remains. But when all usefulness is over, when one is assured of an unavoidable and imminent death, it is the simplest of human rights to choose a quick and easy death in place of a slow and horrible one.
–Charlotte Perkins Gilman (Suicide Note, August 17, 1935)Do not take life too seriously. You will never get out of it alive.
–Elbert HubbardDeath is caused by swallowing small amounts of saliva over a long period of time.
–George CarlinThe supreme irony of life is that hardly anyone gets out of it alive.
–Robert A.HeinleinIf you live to be one hundred, you’ve got it made. Very few people die past that age.
–George Burns (1896-1996)It is impossible that anything so natural, so necessary, and so universal as death, should ever have been designed by Providence as an evil to mankind.
–Jonathan Swift (1667-1745)Have the courage to live. Anyone can die.
–Robert CodyDeath is nothing to us, since when we are, death has not come, and when death has come, we are not.
–EpicurusDo not fear death so much, but rather the inadequate life.
–Bertolt BrechtAs a well-spent day brings happy sleep, so life well used brings happy death.
–Leonardo da Vinci (1452-1519)How is one to live a moral and compassionate existence when one is fully aware of the blood, the horror inherent in life, when one finds darkness not only in one’s culture but within oneself? If there is a stage at which an individual life becomes truly adult, it must be when one grasps the irony in its unfolding and accepts responsibility for a life lived in the midst of such paradox. One must live in the middle of contradiction, because if all contradiction were eliminated at once life would collapse. There are simply no answers to some of the great pressing questions. You continue to live them out, making your life a worthy expression of leaning into the light.
–Barry Lopez in Arctic Dreams
Let children walk with Nature, let them see the beautiful blendings
and communions of death and life, their joyous inseparable unity, as
taught in woods and meadows, plains and mountains and streams of our
blessed star, and they will learn that death is stingless indeed, and
as beautiful as life.
–John MuirTell me not, in mournful numbers,
Life is but an empty dream!
For the soul is dead that slumbers,
and things are not what they seem.
Life is real! Life is earnest!
And the grave is not its goal;
Dust thou art; to dust returnest,
Was not spoken of the soul.
–Henry Wadsworth LongfellowFor certain is death for the born
And certain is birth for the dead;
Therefore over the inevitable
Thou shouldst not grieve.
–Bhagavad GitaStill scared of dying? Let it go. Live in Love.

Comments (16)
theathre was a song once…. about the “only good thing about living is waiting to die” while I don’t fear death… I just quite ain’t ready to croak yet
gee… almost forgot my favorite, “When it comes time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song, and die like a hero going home.” – Chief Aupumut (1725), Mohican.
Walk in Peace
Very clever – I really enjoyed this post.
nice post
Fantastic!
On a side note…I never understood Bob Dylan when he sings, and I don’t get him in print either!!!
No fear of death here… but I’d rather stick around a while, if at all possible.
These are some great quotes.
I swear (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SnYESenjoGY) I just saw your Weblog under another user’s name? Or that I have seen your picture somewhere. Hmmm…
Thank you very much for the insightful entry… And I’ll add one more by Franklin Delano Roosevelt:
“Let me assert my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is FEAR itself — nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance.”
I, for one, am not afraid of dying. Been there, done that. I’d guess the biggest FEAR that people have is the Fear of Dying. But once we have moved past this stumbling block and know that there is existence in the great beyond, we can open ourselves up to the limitless possibilities. In my personal experience, THAT is when we can start living–when we can let go and Let God.
BTW, Jerry Jampolsky’s book is excellent. Brief, but excellent!
the gita has always calmed me, but i have to say, i love the asimov quote the most. the heinlein is nice too… is that from ‘time enough for love’, i wonder?
Fantastic. Thanks for putting these together for us. Something I really need at this time, as my Dad seems to be fading and I’m dealing with all those emotions that surround that. Hope you don’t mind if I print out your post.
thought provoking
True, but you break the taboo.
You know there are a lot of people who don’t want to think about this.
Life is like an onion: You peel it off one layer at a time, and sometimes you weep.
–Carl Sandburg… this is where I am, thanks for sharing
I do not fear death, for the Lord is with me….Psalm 23
I always enjoy reading your wisdom filled posts. Fear is for so many the most cripiling force of nature. One that we can control yet we fear powerless to it. Fear is a choice. Great post!